Divorce is among the most life-altering changes in a person's lifetime, and it becomes more challenging when kids are involved. Co-parenting can be complicated if the parents remarry. We share a look into how my own relationship with my husband's ex-wife and co-parent Luann Halter has evolved as we have navigated divorce and parenting. In an interview series with Luann, we discuss the effects of divorce on parents, on kids, and how to handle co-parenting scenarios.
Ending a marriage takes a toll on the entire family, especially the children. You go through feelings of hurt and anger and are constantly on an emotional roller coaster. The thought of sharing your kids with other people is difficult to accept. However, the most important thing to focus on is to make sure you avoid having an emotional impact on your kids.
The hardest part of parenting is to see your kids struggling and not know how to comfort them. Getting them through tough times like school suspensions or the death of a friend is the most challenging role for parents.
Remember that you don't have to do this alone. Your attorney could provide guidance and answer questions about a wide range of issues, particularly those relating to finances. An experienced family law attorney could explain the legal ramifications of your situations and help devise a plan to handle future obligations, including:
Child support
College savings
Wedding expenses